This is kinda a follow up to my previous ‘free therapy’ video about defensiveness.
I got a comment on YouTube that said “IMO all sincere apologies come with explanations”. After thinking about it a while I must respectfully disagree, and stick to what I said in the video. In my opinion less focus should go to the explanation and more to the apology. 80% explanation and 20% apology equals justification in my eyes. I once had another person tell me they explain because they believe people want to know why they did what they did … but that person has poor relational skills and no one actively chooses to be around them … so I’m sticking to my opinion. Only explain if the person asks, or at least know there are people like me who think your explanation is a justification. Carry on.
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